क्या मर्द और क्या औरत, सभी की उत्सुकता इस बात को लेकर होती है कि पहली बार सेक्स कैसे हुआ और इसकी अनुभूति कैसी रही। ...हालांकि इस मामले में महिलाओं को लेकर उत्सुकता ज्यादा होती है क्योंकि उनके साथ 'कौमार्य' जैसी विशेषता जुड़ी होती है। दक्षिण एशिया के देशों में तो इसे बहुत अहमियत दी जाती है। इस मामले में पश्चिम के देश बहुत उदार हैं। वहां न सिर्फ पुरुष बल्कि महिलाओं के लिए भी कौमार्य अधिक मायने नहीं रखता। महिला ने कहा- मैं चाहती थी कि एक बार यह भी करके देख लिया जाए और जब तक मैंने सेक्स नहीं किया था तब तो सब कुछ ठीक था। पहली बार सेक्स करते समय मैं बस इतना ही सोच सकी- 'हे भगवान, कितनी खुशकिस्मती की बात है कि मुझे फिर कभी ऐसा नहीं करना पड़ेगा।' उनका यह भी कहना था कि इसमें कोई भी तकलीफ नहीं हुई, लेकिन इसमें कुछ अच्छा भी नहीं था। पहली बार कुछ ठीक नहीं लगा, लेकिन वर्जीनिया की एक महिला का कहन...
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On Thursday November 7, I was travelling on Ghodbunder Road (from Hiranandani Estate towards Hiranandani Meadows). The car was driven by my driver and I sat alongside him.
At approximately 19:45 hours, my car passed through the traffic signal at Bramhand (Patlipada). We crossed the signal while it was Green and even after we passed, I noticed that the Amber timer showed additional four second countdown. There is no doubt in my mind that we did not jump the Red signal.
Immediately after crossing, a posse of policemen asked us to stop the car and started photographing the car registration plate. When I questioned the reason for stopping my car, I was told that we had jumped the Red signal. Our conversation went like this.
I: Kay zaley saheb? (What happened, Sir?)
Policeman: Tumhi lal light madhe cross kelay (You have jumped the Red signal)
I: Mee driver chya barobar balso hoto ani khatrinay sangto ki tyani Red signal madhe cross kelay nahi (I was sitting next to the driver and I am telling you with certainty that he did not jump the Red signal)
Policeman: Mhanjay amhi kho boltoy? (Are you saying that police is lying?)
I: Mee tase mhanat nahi, pann mee dehil khotay bolat nahi. Tumchi chook zali aahey. (I’m not saying that you lied but I’m not lying either. You have made a mistake)
Policeman: Mag jaa (Then go)
I thought that was the end of it but I now have a Challan number TNCCM19007057542 for Rs 200 showing up against my car. In the ‘Evidences’ cell is a hyperlink to a photo which was taken after we were stopped and when the car was stationary. That Sir, is hardly ‘Evidence’
I dispute this Challan and will not pay the fine. Please let me know what the procedure is to dispute the fine legally.
What is the point in having a regimen of traffic offence fines when it is only the policeman’s word against mine and I have no means to dispute it?
Regards,
Ajay Deshmukh